In my mind it was always a boy. Dh also has his heart set on a boy. At 12 week scan doc said he thinks boy. Then came 20 week scan and seems like its a girl! What?! To be clear, we love this baby already. The gender will not diminish our feelings. This little one is soooooo wanted. But, I am sooo clueless about girls. Can i still give her a robot Nursery? Is it ok if i buy her toy cars and lego? Girl toys are so stupid and i remember always crying as a kid when my brother got cool toys and I got a doll. Honestly, what is a kid supposed to do with a doll? On top of that I really hate pink. And there is barely any cute girl clothes that are not pink... But probably the thing i am worried about the most is how to get dh excited about a girl. He is worried that a girl needs someone to protect her. But he cannot see anything fun about having a girl, and honestly neither can i. Anyone with some knowledge? Is there anything that makes girls fun? Especially from a dad's perspective?