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now i am all healed from a very traumatic birth (forceps and episotomy) i have noticed, where there has been hardly any sexual activity between my fiance and i, my labido has packed its bags and headed to god knows where.
deep down i do wanna DO IT! i just dont get excited as fast as i used to, which puts me off, even though sex IS more enjoyable now than before childbirth.
its like i need almost an hour of foreplay before i even feel ready to DO IT!
i find this embarassing and i am worried that TTC will feel like a job more than being seen as fun and a way of sharing love with my partner etc.
i am so confused, does anyone else feel differently about sex now they're a mummy?
or... a mummy to-be?
or... TTC in the next year?
BTW i have been seen by a doctor x x x x