cooper2010
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Im so irratated with my husband right now. I (even before pregnancy) have a very low sex drive. Perhaps there is something wrong with me but I will re-evaluate that in a few months after baby. Anyways, this whole pregnancy I only wanted to have sex 2-3times. I just don't have that same desire that my OH does. Its really frustrating.
Well last night, I though ok tonight I will give in to "his" needs, which isn't really a big deal. So TMI but we started and I said to wait...then I took a few seconds to decide that I had to get up and go to the bathroom. (I was kind of gassy and bloated and just over all uncomfortable. It doesn't help that the baby was moving around at this time too).
I told him, sorry I was just not comfortable, and my stomach hurt. He said with quite the attitude that its been a long time. I was thinking, does he really want to do this when I am gassy? REALLY??? LOL
I just can't beleive he is acting like this, and he does not understand that I physically don't have the need like he does. What in the world can I do? I don't even like to kiss or snuggle....Im a real turn on right now! I can understand his frustration, but honestly that is not going to change how I feel! I will never force myself to have sex if I don't want to, but as a married couple should I be forcing myself?
Well last night, I though ok tonight I will give in to "his" needs, which isn't really a big deal. So TMI but we started and I said to wait...then I took a few seconds to decide that I had to get up and go to the bathroom. (I was kind of gassy and bloated and just over all uncomfortable. It doesn't help that the baby was moving around at this time too).
I told him, sorry I was just not comfortable, and my stomach hurt. He said with quite the attitude that its been a long time. I was thinking, does he really want to do this when I am gassy? REALLY??? LOL
I just can't beleive he is acting like this, and he does not understand that I physically don't have the need like he does. What in the world can I do? I don't even like to kiss or snuggle....Im a real turn on right now! I can understand his frustration, but honestly that is not going to change how I feel! I will never force myself to have sex if I don't want to, but as a married couple should I be forcing myself?