JadeyB
Mummy of 2 (1 Angel baby)
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Hi girls,
Anyone else not able to comfort their toddler when he/she is ill?
Ethan has an ear infection and is really poorly with it He just fights me, he hates it when I try to comfort him by hugging him or, stroking his head or anything like that. I just feel so helpless. For some reason daddy can settle him really easily. He does need to get up and rock him sometimes, which I can't do as I have a bump and I'm high risk so meant to be off my feet as much as poss and no heavy lifting.
He isn't a cuddly baby naturally, he wants comfort but always tries to push it away. He just doesn't know what to do with himself. DH is exactly the same.
It just upsets me when I've been doing my best all day to comfort him and DH comes and he sits quietly chilled out on his lap.
I guess my real worry is that I don't have a cuddly relationship with my mum and at times I've felt I was the grown up in our relationship. I just want that to be different for Ethan, I want him to have a mummy that comforts, helps and supports him.
Can anyone else relate?
x
Anyone else not able to comfort their toddler when he/she is ill?
Ethan has an ear infection and is really poorly with it He just fights me, he hates it when I try to comfort him by hugging him or, stroking his head or anything like that. I just feel so helpless. For some reason daddy can settle him really easily. He does need to get up and rock him sometimes, which I can't do as I have a bump and I'm high risk so meant to be off my feet as much as poss and no heavy lifting.
He isn't a cuddly baby naturally, he wants comfort but always tries to push it away. He just doesn't know what to do with himself. DH is exactly the same.
It just upsets me when I've been doing my best all day to comfort him and DH comes and he sits quietly chilled out on his lap.
I guess my real worry is that I don't have a cuddly relationship with my mum and at times I've felt I was the grown up in our relationship. I just want that to be different for Ethan, I want him to have a mummy that comforts, helps and supports him.
Can anyone else relate?
x