jlw617
Mom to 2 girls
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So last week I had my 35 week appointment and they did my gbs swab and it was the last of the midwives I had to meet, so far I've loved all the midwives and I even liked this last one but something she did made me mad...before I start, let me preface by saying I'm not looking for people to give me advice per say and I don't mean it rudely but I'll explain why after I explain what happened. So the appointment went well, I was 70% effaced and 1-2 cm dilated! Baby's heartbeat was great and he's still very active, he's in position although he is back to back, little stinker! Well at the end she asked me if I had been having routine growth scans and I told her no because though I have GD, I have been more than controlling my numbers and this last appointment was the very first in my entire pregnancy where I had actually gained some weight, 2 lbs (up until that point I had lost 20 and hadn't gained any of it back yet) so obviously my weight had also been great...my main midwife was/is more than fine with me not getting any growth scans and I'm personally against them for the most part as I know how inaccurate they can be with a known difference of up to 2lbs...I don't want the extra ultrasound exposure and I also don't want them to be off and want to suddenly take additional measures based off what they think they find...I.e., csection or induction because "baby is too big" I've never had GD in previous pregnancies but with my lack of weight gain, numbers staying in control and previous "smaller babies" I'm not likely to have a large baby and even if I did which I strongly doubt, I have friends that are just as petite as me that have birthed 10lb babies...any how she also ordered an nst and though it's not invasive, it made me mad because she didn't tell me she ordered the test, I found out through the billing department she had no reason to order such a test and if she did she did not communicate it with me...I've had no complications (yes I know the GD is considered a "complication" but even with that, I've done a great job keeping it under control, so needless to say with her ordering tests that are unnecessary and finding out my insurance won't cover them anyways, plus it would be an ob, not a midwife (I have nothing against obs, in fact my first 2 pregnancies were under the care of obs, I just prefer more natural care this time) I just cancelled, I'm due any day and it's not like they do anything in these last appointments besides ask how I'm doing, check my Bp and urine which have been perfect every time so I'm totally fine with missing it. Thanks for reading my novel I just needed to vent.