Not interested in sex anymore

[themaybaby]

Hi guys, but I have a problem. , I'm new to this! I'm almost 6 weeks pregnant and very excited! Except I'm having this one problem, I'm sort of scared/not interested in having sex anymore. I went from this crazy sex kitten to just, nothing. For one I don't know why I am afraid that I will hurt the baby. I am afraid that I will throw off the ph balance in my vagina. Is anyone else having this problem? My poor boyfriend...lol

 

[o0oCharlieo0o]

lol im not scared to i just have no interest whatsoever, which is very different for me because i have a really high sex drive usually lol my poor bf is suffering from this too lol, dont worry hun you arent going to cause any harm by having sex xx

 

[kat2504]

Sex won't do you or the baby any harm if you want to do it.
However, like you, I couldn't be less interested at the moment. It's mostly the hormones, and the tiredness, and the anxiety.

 

[rosebud11]

I am in the same boat! I always had crazy amount of sex drive and now I feel absolutely nothing. In my mind I really want to but I'm scared it might cause a m/c as I am only 6 weeks. I think I will feel more comfortable after my first ultrasound. I feel so bad for my husband but thank God he's been so understanding.

 

[Wantapink1]

I have no interest what so ever I just think it was all the while TTC x

 

[AngelUK]

I am the same. Apart from feeling extremely unattractive at the moment, my OH is rather well endowed and (sorry TMI) in the position he likes he does rather tend to bang into my cervix- at least that is what it feels like. So that is not something I want happening right now! But since he hasn't got an all that high sex drive, I don't think it really bothers him that he cannot get any at the mo.

 

[wavescrash]

Not interested whatsoever and it has nothing to do with fear of harming the baby or causing a m/c. I just don't have an interest. Oh well... I feel like absolute crap nearly 24/7 so my OH can suffer a little bit too

 

[AliciaDA]

I feel ya! I'm going through the same thing. I feel bad for my husband since he has been wanting to sleep together, but I'm totally not in the mood. Plus I feel like my vagina is sacred and don't want anything to bother it :X haha even though the doctor told me it's ok to have sex. I'm hoping I get over it since it's not fair to the hubby.

 

[BabyKey]

I'm glad I'm not the only one. It think it's hard for the guys bc while ttc you go at it every chance you get, now nothing. I hate to admit it, but we tried to have sex once and I started crying in the middle of it bc it was so uncomfortable. We definitely have the ok from the Doc, but I need to get myself in the mood. Maybe during the second tri it'll get better.

 

[due3may12]

thank god its not just me!!! im so so not interested! found out 3 weeks ago that preg and ever since then ive no interest watso ever!! haha!!

 

[mommy_2008]

im the same in almost 18 weeks and i havent had no sex drive at all since i got pregnant but i just give it to him anyway sometimes cuz i feel bad but he knows i had sex so much with my first baby but with this one forget it i dont do ntn lol cant wait to have this baby lol

 

[Mom2mmcjg]

I'm right there with ya. It is fear for me though. My last two pregnancies ended in miscarriage and both times I started bleeding shortly after orgasm. (sorry TMI) But that has me totally freaked out this time. I told my hubby I want to wait until after I talk to the doctor. I want to make sure I don't have a weak cervix or anything.