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Im Hannah and Im mummy to 6 year old Layla and 3 year old George. I was regular on this site while pregnant with both babies 😊
Im in a very happy new relationship after the breakdown of the relationship with my babies dad. He was a controlling asshole!
Anyway me and my wonderful partner would like to have a baby (he has no children of his own) and also my daughter keeps pestering him for a baby sister 🙈. The thing is he would really like a baby, but he keeps saying when the time is right, which is fine I already have 2 and Im not in a rush, but he then tells me but what if I keep waiting for the right time and them its to late, hes 26, not 46 I keep telling him its fine to wait but from experience I know your never really ready until it happens, but he cant keep to make his mind up and hes scared of the whole deal. I keep reassuring him as Im already a parent that its actually easier than he thinks, then he says about the financial side.. bare in mind me both hold down good full time jobs, hes a manager at a supermarket which pays exceptionally well and Im a childrens support worker, so we are not really short of money (some of the time, serial spender here 🙈
Anyone have advice on how I can put his mind at rest, it annoys me because I know just how easy things are having a baby and its really nothing to be scared of where as he is a big bag of anxiety and Id like to shake him because one day he will turn around and want a child and Ill already be a grandmother at this point 😂
Sorry for the long post!
Im in a very happy new relationship after the breakdown of the relationship with my babies dad. He was a controlling asshole!
Anyway me and my wonderful partner would like to have a baby (he has no children of his own) and also my daughter keeps pestering him for a baby sister 🙈. The thing is he would really like a baby, but he keeps saying when the time is right, which is fine I already have 2 and Im not in a rush, but he then tells me but what if I keep waiting for the right time and them its to late, hes 26, not 46 I keep telling him its fine to wait but from experience I know your never really ready until it happens, but he cant keep to make his mind up and hes scared of the whole deal. I keep reassuring him as Im already a parent that its actually easier than he thinks, then he says about the financial side.. bare in mind me both hold down good full time jobs, hes a manager at a supermarket which pays exceptionally well and Im a childrens support worker, so we are not really short of money (some of the time, serial spender here 🙈
Anyone have advice on how I can put his mind at rest, it annoys me because I know just how easy things are having a baby and its really nothing to be scared of where as he is a big bag of anxiety and Id like to shake him because one day he will turn around and want a child and Ill already be a grandmother at this point 😂
Sorry for the long post!
