Not sure if I'm pregnant....

Discussion in 'Pregnancy - First Trimester' started by Sparkysgirl82, Oct 9, 2008.

  1. Sparkysgirl82

    Sparkysgirl82 Well-Known Member

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    So hubby and I have been 'unofficially' ttc for about 3 years.... but we haven't charted or anything like that. My doctor believes that it is my weight (I am 160kgs :( ) that is preventing me from falling pregnant.

    However the last week I've had the following symptoms
    * Dull ongoing ache with random cramps
    * Lower back pain that coincides with the aches
    * Tiredness
    * Weird random moments where I feel sick, but then it passes within a few minutes-30mins

    I never normally get any period pain or discomfort, so it is quite a strange feeling. My hubby is convinced that I am pregnant and that itself is strange cos any other time he is like 'nah....'

    My last period started sept 12th and so I am not due until the weekend.... so a home preg test I did 3 days ago was neg... but its still quite early.

    A bit strange for me to feel this... I am not sure if it is wishful thinking or gut instinct... what do you guys think?
     
  2. Cariad_bach

    Cariad_bach mum to 2 boys and 2 girls

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    Aww hun i dont know but i will keep everything crossed for you, dont worry about getting the neg, i got negs until i was 19 DPO, its was quite a few days passed when i was due on before i got a BFP.

    You could got to the docs for a blood test or invest in a really good early test and do it first thing in the morning in a couple of days.

    Good luck hun, keep us posted xxxxxx
     
  3. Rumpskin

    Rumpskin Free to try again!

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    Hey darling

    I just replied back to your thread on my thread (if that makes sense). Try and hold out until the weekend and then you will get a more accurate result. I know that it is hard and your symptoms are sounding good.

    I will have my fingers crossed for you x
     
  4. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Mother of 4

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    I hpe you are pregnancy gave me the false idea that my period was coming and it didnt. So do a test and see how it comes out. fingers crossed for you.
     
  5. leeanne

    leeanne Mom of 3 and Stepmom of 2

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    Best thing to do is wait a few days and take another test. Good luck!
     
  6. Sparkysgirl82

    Sparkysgirl82 Well-Known Member

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    Yeah thanks guys... I planned to do one on sunday and another Wed and Sunday of next week if still no witch arriving...

    It is sooo hard cos I've been trying to lose weight and I have to stop the progrm I'm on if I am preg... I'd lost 7 kgs... but this week I'd gained half a kg.

    HMmmmm Will just have to wait and see
     
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    Good Luck!! I hope you get your BFP :)
     
  9. starryeye31

    starryeye31 2nd tri ~Its A Boy ~

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    test again in a few days good luck hun hope you get your bfp:hug:
     
  10. cybermum

    cybermum MUM TO 2 BOYS.

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    Fingers crossed for you that you get a BFP!!!
    You do have some of the symtons,nausea is usually an early indicator.
    Are you feeling more tired than normal?
    Though as you say it is early,test again at weekend and again few days later if needed.

    Best of luck to you both!
     
  11. LongRoadAhead

    LongRoadAhead ♥Due 06/05/09♥

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    Not sure sweety, The only way your going to know is by doing a test.
    When I fell pregnant I just knew I was,gut instinct.
    The symptoms you've said could also be a sign of your period coming but fingers crossed it will stay away for you :)
    If your not pregnant this month, The good luck for the following ones :) and enjoy trying!!;)
    X
     
  12. Fossey

    Fossey Mummy to Larissa

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    Good luck for your :bfp:
     
  13. bethyb

    bethyb Expecting our third!!!

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    being totally honest and knowing how hard it is to wait id still say wait - ive had two chemical miscarriages - ie two positive tests that i did before my period was due and then my period came and its really tough when that happens as it gives u so many emotions, this happens to loads of women and id say wait til ur due as then baby has implanted which can be a tricky bit! just my advice (id prob still test early again if i was desperate! lol but try and wait! fingers crossed hun
     
  14. cleckner04

    cleckner04 ✭Emma & Rylan's Mama✭

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    I wish I had advice but I don't so I just wanted to say Good Luck!!
     
  15. Sparkysgirl82

    Sparkysgirl82 Well-Known Member

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    Ok, so I am pretty sure I have just got my period... :(

    Am somewhat let down, but I knew the timing was relly bad so I am good with it... Back to the WTT/TTC forum for me :)
     

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