So hubby and I have been 'unofficially' ttc for about 3 years.... but we haven't charted or anything like that. My doctor believes that it is my weight (I am 160kgs ) that is preventing me from falling pregnant. However the last week I've had the following symptoms * Dull ongoing ache with random cramps * Lower back pain that coincides with the aches * Tiredness * Weird random moments where I feel sick, but then it passes within a few minutes-30mins I never normally get any period pain or discomfort, so it is quite a strange feeling. My hubby is convinced that I am pregnant and that itself is strange cos any other time he is like 'nah....' My last period started sept 12th and so I am not due until the weekend.... so a home preg test I did 3 days ago was neg... but its still quite early. A bit strange for me to feel this... I am not sure if it is wishful thinking or gut instinct... what do you guys think?