Feronia
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I'm only 10 weeks now, but this is our current plan. We only see family once a year, and we won't be seeing them until December when I'm 30 weeks.
Part of it is because both sides expressed that we shouldn't have a second one any time soon or at all (which really made me pause -- I have a good job, we provide DD with a loving home, and it's really our business when we procreate). The other part is that I think it would be more special and meaningful if we surprised them with it in person.
Now I don't really know what to do. Is there any reason not to wait? Would they be too offended, or be much more surprised and happy for us? (And hopefully forget about telling us not to have a second!)
Part of it is because both sides expressed that we shouldn't have a second one any time soon or at all (which really made me pause -- I have a good job, we provide DD with a loving home, and it's really our business when we procreate). The other part is that I think it would be more special and meaningful if we surprised them with it in person.
Now I don't really know what to do. Is there any reason not to wait? Would they be too offended, or be much more surprised and happy for us? (And hopefully forget about telling us not to have a second!)