puffers121
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Is this normal? I feel like my husband keeps trying to touch my boobs all the time because it gets a reaction, but it's not a positive one. They're sensitive and touch feels extra extremely invasive whilst experiencing queasiness. It is terrible feeling to be touched anywhere sexually right now, let alone being touched much in general. Even as a kid I didn't want to be touched when not feeling well. It's the same now and my physically affectionate husband is not understanding. He keeps trying and trying and I end up flailing my arms, panicking to the point of almost hitting him and getting upset, yelling "Plase. Do. Not. Touch. Me". I love my husband and love his affection, but not right now Just now was an incident and I started crying and getting claustrophobic feeling with him trying to be close and touching my boobs. After I calmed down I said, I love you and love your company laying next to me close, but just dont want to be poked and prodded right now and not for a while.
Anyone get the same thing? I'm frustrated with him and for him, because touch is definitely his love language and feels sad and dejected more often lately. He just turned around back facing me and tried to make a barrier between me and him and said not to touch him, he doesn't like to be touched. I was fine with a gentle snuggle, but not being accosted. I've said that but it's not getting through I dont know how to convey that barrier/boundary when he wants to be more handsy.
Anyone get the same thing? I'm frustrated with him and for him, because touch is definitely his love language and feels sad and dejected more often lately. He just turned around back facing me and tried to make a barrier between me and him and said not to touch him, he doesn't like to be touched. I was fine with a gentle snuggle, but not being accosted. I've said that but it's not getting through I dont know how to convey that barrier/boundary when he wants to be more handsy.