Now please!!

[Cupcake11]

I want a baby soooo much it hurts!!

That is all!

xxx

 

[Katia-xO]

We all feel the same way here here if you wana talk! xx

 

[mummy2one]

 

[Baby Potter]

I'm pretty sure we're all in the same boat here unfortunately. At least there is a place like this that we can all come to and vent, talk and share our feelings with other women who completely understand how hard it is. Someday we will all be able to be the mothers that we so desperately want to be and we will be better mothers for the struggles we've had to endure. (At least that's what I tell myself )

 

[jessy1101]

Ditto and ditto once again. The only way i have found so far is to be overly outrageous and hilarious in my PUPO thread/group and make the days a bit easier.

Feel free to join for all! U just gotta be a teeny bit cray cray lolol

 

[Bruingirl]

I know exactly how you feel. If another person tells me - you can always adopt - I will punch them in the face

 

[silverlizard]

Bruingirl - I'd applaud you if you did! It's such an unhelpful thing to say, and I really resent the way people make it sounds like adoption is this completely easy, simple process. Not everyone can adopt, not everyone feels it is the right decision for their family, it is NOT something anyone else can decide you "should" do, and it is not something that anyone goes into lightly or on a whim. Yes, it is a wonderful thing to do if it's right for you, but it is not right for everyone, and even when it is, it is still also a difficult, drawn-out process which comes with its own issues and difficulties for both the adopted child and the new parents (and of course the child's birth parents too). It is, in short, KIND OF A BIG DEAL, not an instant finger-click solution to fertility problems. Bleh.

... sorry, went off on a massive rant there - my father worked extensively with adopted and looked-after kids and I've done some work in that area myself so it's a bit of a pet subject and I hate people being flippant about it. Anyway, er, my original point was... Cupcake, I know exactly what you mean. I just so, so want a baby, it's actually painful. =/