Now That I'm Happy

Discussion in 'Single Parents' started by Younglutonmum, Oct 19, 2008.

  1. Younglutonmum

    Younglutonmum Mummy To Maya & Bump

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    Well think we all on here have established that my ex is a walking, talking bellend

    And i'm not a huge fan of his family either. They pretty much ignored me during my pregnancy, when they finally got in touch they were really rude & demanding, telling me they would be taking Maya every weekend straight after i've had her & when I finally gave birth his mum didn't bother texting me back until late in the evening & even then it was demanding that she should be aloud to visit us in hospital & that I should be prepared as I won't like what she has to say!!

    So as you can imagine i've been very hostile towards them.

    But now my hormones seem to have calmed down & i'm feeling happier in myself especially after securing a house :happydance: (sorry to keep mentioning it but I really am happy)

    So i'm thinking maybe I should go visit them with Maya? As I said i'm feeling alot happier & less inclined to argue with them.

    I know ive given them so many chances but I think for Mayas sake I should fight for her right to a big family

    If I go to visit them at least I know I really have done everything possible

    So what do you all think??
     
  2. x-amy-x

    x-amy-x Mammy

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    I would wait till your all settled in your house and then I would go and rub it in their faces how you managed to go it alone and how bloody fantastic you have done. Be the better person, much more than their son has been.

    Well done hun :hugs:
     
  3. Pyrrhic

    Pyrrhic Well-Known Member

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    What about waiting until you move into your new house and have everything sorted and inviting them round to see how wonderful everything is? :)

    I think it's great that you're willing to ignore how rubbish they've been towards you and make an effort with them. Shows strength of character IMO. Not sure I could! Certainly shows your a better person than your ex.
     
  4. Serene123

    Serene123 Guest

    Do what you want babe. Don't do it untill you're ready though, they're always going to be there!:hugs:
     
  5. princess_bump

    princess_bump Happy Wife & Mumma!

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    perfectly said :hugs: i completely agree, so happy for you honey :hugs:
     
  6. nikky0907

    nikky0907 Well-Known Member

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    Agreed!
    Go big style...show them how amazing you're doing and how their idiot of a son is only fooling himself! :hugs:
     
  7. Donna79x

    Donna79x Mummy to Rihanna Paige x

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    Same here hun, wait till your settled in your house and then you will feel even better, then give them the chance and more importantly Maya.... but only does this if you really want to.... there is plenty of time xxx
     

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