Well think we all on here have established that my ex is a walking, talking bellend And i'm not a huge fan of his family either. They pretty much ignored me during my pregnancy, when they finally got in touch they were really rude & demanding, telling me they would be taking Maya every weekend straight after i've had her & when I finally gave birth his mum didn't bother texting me back until late in the evening & even then it was demanding that she should be aloud to visit us in hospital & that I should be prepared as I won't like what she has to say!! So as you can imagine i've been very hostile towards them. But now my hormones seem to have calmed down & i'm feeling happier in myself especially after securing a house (sorry to keep mentioning it but I really am happy) So i'm thinking maybe I should go visit them with Maya? As I said i'm feeling alot happier & less inclined to argue with them. I know ive given them so many chances but I think for Mayas sake I should fight for her right to a big family If I go to visit them at least I know I really have done everything possible So what do you all think??