lucy_smith
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Hello
I'm 22 and oh is 23 (23 and 24 ) this month. Been together going on 8 years . So most people wouldn't expect the clock to start ticking yet. We have been ntnp since the beginning of the year.
We are going to be building a house next year and hope to be moved in by Christmas. After that we will start to plan our wedding and get married!
But I think my endo may be getting worse, I'm starting to get mid cycle spotting and my cycles are getting shorter, I'm also starting to get pains after Dtd too.
I want to go to my dr and see what's wrong but depending on wether in ttc or I I decide to wait until I'm married can change the plan ( I always wanted to be married first, but with the endo I would rather have a chance whilst not married than wait and it be too late)
My bf wants to wait until the house then marriage then kids, but I havnt told him about the spotting, he knows the pain is getting more frequent. I'm going to have to have a proper chat and tell him there is a possibility it is getting worse and see what he says
What would you do in my situation?? Any advice for someone who has no idea what's for the best?
I'm 22 and oh is 23 (23 and 24 ) this month. Been together going on 8 years . So most people wouldn't expect the clock to start ticking yet. We have been ntnp since the beginning of the year.
We are going to be building a house next year and hope to be moved in by Christmas. After that we will start to plan our wedding and get married!
But I think my endo may be getting worse, I'm starting to get mid cycle spotting and my cycles are getting shorter, I'm also starting to get pains after Dtd too.
I want to go to my dr and see what's wrong but depending on wether in ttc or I I decide to wait until I'm married can change the plan ( I always wanted to be married first, but with the endo I would rather have a chance whilst not married than wait and it be too late)
My bf wants to wait until the house then marriage then kids, but I havnt told him about the spotting, he knows the pain is getting more frequent. I'm going to have to have a proper chat and tell him there is a possibility it is getting worse and see what he says
What would you do in my situation?? Any advice for someone who has no idea what's for the best?