Lawhra
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The quote in the thread title was preceeded by "so yet again it's you being the c**t" and was said to me in a text message last night by my baby's dad
I will give as short an explanation as I can so as not to bore you.
We were having a general chat before saying goodnight and going to sleep as we do every night (he is in The Army and lives on camp).
So he is telling me he needs to find a pitch for a football match tomorrow and had found a possible which is owned by a local church in a small village. He said he was told he could use the changing rooms by someone but needed permission from the parishioners about using the pitch. Now, I thought the two were connected so when he commented how nice it was that he was allowed to use their changing rooms and asked what I thought I said:
Me: "it seems a bit pointless" (what use are the changing rooms without a pitch to play on!!)
Him: Yeah it does. But it is nice of them to let me use the changing rooms.
Me: "yes it is nice but it is still pointless"
He got annoyed with me, didn't explain the two are not connected (until he sent the nasty text above) and said he didn't want to talk to me anymore so the phonecall was over.
I had told him I was not disagreeing it was nice to let them use the changing rooms and was baffled by him getting so annoyed at my comment that he had agreed with.
Am I in the wrong? I need to know from an outsider's point of view because he does this sort of thing a lot and then tells me things like "you're an annoying b***h and I don't want to be with you anymore" "you are such a knob" "I don't give a fuck, you can raise this baby yourself" and more.
I didn't say anything in reply ti his text and have not heard from him since.
Sorry it was long, if you read it, thank you
I will give as short an explanation as I can so as not to bore you.
We were having a general chat before saying goodnight and going to sleep as we do every night (he is in The Army and lives on camp).
So he is telling me he needs to find a pitch for a football match tomorrow and had found a possible which is owned by a local church in a small village. He said he was told he could use the changing rooms by someone but needed permission from the parishioners about using the pitch. Now, I thought the two were connected so when he commented how nice it was that he was allowed to use their changing rooms and asked what I thought I said:
Me: "it seems a bit pointless" (what use are the changing rooms without a pitch to play on!!)
Him: Yeah it does. But it is nice of them to let me use the changing rooms.
Me: "yes it is nice but it is still pointless"
He got annoyed with me, didn't explain the two are not connected (until he sent the nasty text above) and said he didn't want to talk to me anymore so the phonecall was over.
I had told him I was not disagreeing it was nice to let them use the changing rooms and was baffled by him getting so annoyed at my comment that he had agreed with.
Am I in the wrong? I need to know from an outsider's point of view because he does this sort of thing a lot and then tells me things like "you're an annoying b***h and I don't want to be with you anymore" "you are such a knob" "I don't give a fuck, you can raise this baby yourself" and more.
I didn't say anything in reply ti his text and have not heard from him since.
Sorry it was long, if you read it, thank you