O/T: sex

[qwerry]

This is so O/T but i just want to see if my relationship is the only one that seem to not be having sex anymore

I mean we did up until about 9 weeks but since then it's sorta just stopped, not completely but it's defiantly decreased but im not bothered at all as i like to be able to get into bed and just go to sleep but i feel bad i feel like im disappointing OH anyone else feel like this?

I want to do something for him something exciting to show him that i've not completely forgot what sex is ha, so i was think something i don't know as stupid as this might sound.. something saucy like i dont know sex in the car or something but i've never done that before, does anyone have any experience with that? or would recommend it

 

[blondi]

its normal to feel more tierd and just want to sleep, im not in a relationship but if i was i would be the same as you,,

 

[nicmum2b]

Me & OH have only just started having sex again but that's only when I feel like it, bless him! I completely lost my libido when I fell pregnant.. and it's only now (long time huh!) since I've got it back!! We have gone from having sex around 5 times a week (pre-preg) to nothing (preg) to now about once or twice a week, if he's lucky!! I haven't even wanted to give him a BJ!! Trying to get it back a bit now though (I need to sauce things up a bit too) so think I will invest in some flavoured lube and give him a little treat sometime soon!!

 

[Kaisma]

Im not much help as we still have sex like we used to! I hope youll get urs sorted but yes, try somethin new and exciting!!! But dont make urself to do anything u dont feel like ur not into or just dont feel good doing it.

 

[Gee123]

Don't feel like your dissapointing him it mite make it worse. I'm sure he won't die I know what u mean tho
Try and have fun,experiment but remember to relax! It won't be long b4 your bump gets in the way of things! xxxx

 

[youngmummy94]

Its like I wrote this!!! Haha we NEVER do anymore, I never feel like it, he always does, I feel really bad though cause I feel like I'm upsetting him.

One night I felt extra bad so I wore nice bra and undies and just walked in and took all my clothes off and jumped on
^ I don't sound like a maniac at all...

 

[qwerry]

Its like I wrote this!!! Haha we NEVER do anymore, I never feel like it, he always does, I feel really bad though cause I feel like I'm upsetting him.

One night I felt extra bad so I wore nice bra and undies and just walked in and took all my clothes off and jumped on
^ I don't sound like a maniac at all...

i might try you're tactic i think OH will enjoy that

 

[Leopard]

We had sex like 3 times since I have been pregnant. It is so uncomfortable and leaves me walking like I have saddle sores haha.

 

[tinkerbelle93]

Sex has definitely decreased in my relationship too I'm tired and my OH seems to be off it too, probably because he's tired too from working all the time. I find it a bit upsetting because these are the last three months we'll ever have with just the two of us EVER, soo surely we should be making the most of sex and things, ah well.

As for doing something different then it's up to you, really. There are lots of things you could do. I wouldn't recommend sex in a car but then I'm clautrophobic haha and I just really don't understand why some people are so obsessed with it?? I'd suggest dressing really sexy for him in some really nice sexy underwear or whatever? xx

 

[jemmie1994]

me and OH arent having much sex atm either but apparently i give an amazing bj (sorry TMI lol) so he doesnt feel to hard done by , defininitly WOULDNT recommend sex in the car its the most uncomfortable thing ever!

 

[qwerry]

Sex has definitely decreased in my relationship too I'm tired and my OH seems to be off it too, probably because he's tired too from working all the time. I find it a bit upsetting because these are the last three months we'll ever have with just the two of us EVER, soo surely we should be making the most of sex and things, ah well.

As for doing something different then it's up to you, really. There are lots of things you could do. I wouldn't recommend sex in a car but then I'm clautrophobic haha and I just really don't understand why some people are so obsessed with it?? I'd suggest dressing really sexy for him in some really nice sexy underwear or whatever? xx

yea people talk about it alot so i was like hey i might try it but im sorta shy even with OH so i don't think i would enjoy the awkwardness of it

 

[qwerry]

me and OH arent having much sex atm either but apparently i give an amazing bj (sorry TMI lol) so he doesnt feel to hard done by , defininitly WOULDNT recommend sex in the car its the most uncomfortable thing ever!

amazing bj huh? saucy yeaa i don't think that cards on the table anymore think it would be too difficult ha !

 

[jemmie1994]

me and OH arent having much sex atm either but apparently i give an amazing bj (sorry TMI lol) so he doesnt feel to hard done by , defininitly WOULDNT recommend sex in the car its the most uncomfortable thing ever!

amazing bj huh? saucy yeaa i don't think that cards on the table anymore think it would be too difficult ha !

hehehe

 

[tinkerbelle93]

Sex has definitely decreased in my relationship too I'm tired and my OH seems to be off it too, probably because he's tired too from working all the time. I find it a bit upsetting because these are the last three months we'll ever have with just the two of us EVER, soo surely we should be making the most of sex and things, ah well.

As for doing something different then it's up to you, really. There are lots of things you could do. I wouldn't recommend sex in a car but then I'm clautrophobic haha and I just really don't understand why some people are so obsessed with it?? I'd suggest dressing really sexy for him in some really nice sexy underwear or whatever? xx

yea people talk about it alot so i was like hey i might try it but im sorta shy even with OH so i don't think i would enjoy the awkwardness of it

If you REALLY want to try it then I'd say do it now because you're only going to get bigger and it'll be REALLY awkward! And once you're not big you're going to have a baby with means little expeditions like these will out of the question for some time! However, if you're not too keen on the idea of it and you're going to find it awkward/uncomfortable then I'd say don't bother! There are plenty of other things you AND OH will enjoy. I'd say just buy some really sexy undies and dress up for him Maybe with the build-up of some saucy texting (or sexting as people call it hehe) and you'll feel really good about yourself and OH will love it xx

 

[qwerry]

Sex has definitely decreased in my relationship too I'm tired and my OH seems to be off it too, probably because he's tired too from working all the time. I find it a bit upsetting because these are the last three months we'll ever have with just the two of us EVER, soo surely we should be making the most of sex and things, ah well.

As for doing something different then it's up to you, really. There are lots of things you could do. I wouldn't recommend sex in a car but then I'm clautrophobic haha and I just really don't understand why some people are so obsessed with it?? I'd suggest dressing really sexy for him in some really nice sexy underwear or whatever? xx

yea people talk about it alot so i was like hey i might try it but im sorta shy even with OH so i don't think i would enjoy the awkwardness of it

If you REALLY want to try it then I'd say do it now because you're only going to get bigger and it'll be REALLY awkward! And once you're not big you're going to have a baby with means little expeditions like these will out of the question for some time! However, if you're not too keen on the idea of it and you're going to find it awkward/uncomfortable then I'd say don't bother! There are plenty of other things you AND OH will enjoy. I'd say just buy some really sexy undies and dress up for him Maybe with the build-up of some saucy texting (or sexting as people call it hehe) and you'll feel really good about yourself and OH will love it xx

yea you are right i don't think i'll feel comfortable doing that so i think im going to go with the texting and dressing up idea, see more appealing also if you ask me and we have an extremely small car so i don't really think that helps.
thanks for the advice you are now officially my sex adviser i shall learn great thing xx