welshmummy2be
mummy of 2 (one angel) x
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had a huge argument with other half....
since we got live for the xbox all he seems to do is live on it, he's been on it for 3 days solid now without doing anything but making a cup of tea. now i know i can be a bit of a moaning murtle when it comes to the shape of my house and house rules but he really takes it to far. one rule is that there is no smoking in the house what so ever, neither me or obviously LO smokes but he does... so ive asked a few times today have he smoked in the house as i can smell it an he told me he's gone outside...well i walked in the kitchen to find him standing on the inner side of the door practicaly in the midle of the kitchen (granted it was open) and i threw a bit of a wobbly about it saying he was subjecting his daughter to second-hand smoke. so i decided after this fall out that i wanted to get away from him and calm down (i went and sorted out my LO's cot which she's never slept in as his sister died of SIDS and he's insecure about it along with other various things in her room) and he comes barging in slamming the door and getting in my face and eventually pushing me around. (im not saying im getting beaten up or he's a bad man because he wasnt/isnt) anyway this is one of many arguements, i just dont feel like he's pulling his weight and i cant do it for him anymore...im seriously considering ending our relationship, im fed up of putting up with shit that i dont have to.
sorry ladies/gents about this its just im so frustrated at the moment and didnt really know where else to go at 3am
since we got live for the xbox all he seems to do is live on it, he's been on it for 3 days solid now without doing anything but making a cup of tea. now i know i can be a bit of a moaning murtle when it comes to the shape of my house and house rules but he really takes it to far. one rule is that there is no smoking in the house what so ever, neither me or obviously LO smokes but he does... so ive asked a few times today have he smoked in the house as i can smell it an he told me he's gone outside...well i walked in the kitchen to find him standing on the inner side of the door practicaly in the midle of the kitchen (granted it was open) and i threw a bit of a wobbly about it saying he was subjecting his daughter to second-hand smoke. so i decided after this fall out that i wanted to get away from him and calm down (i went and sorted out my LO's cot which she's never slept in as his sister died of SIDS and he's insecure about it along with other various things in her room) and he comes barging in slamming the door and getting in my face and eventually pushing me around. (im not saying im getting beaten up or he's a bad man because he wasnt/isnt) anyway this is one of many arguements, i just dont feel like he's pulling his weight and i cant do it for him anymore...im seriously considering ending our relationship, im fed up of putting up with shit that i dont have to.
sorry ladies/gents about this its just im so frustrated at the moment and didnt really know where else to go at 3am