off-topic but feeling desperate

Discussion in 'Pregnancy - First Trimester' started by gracegrace, Apr 12, 2009.

  1. gracegrace

    gracegrace happily pregnant with 2nd

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    Not coping here :cry:

    I know I've posted here before about having found out I need a heart pacemaker, but I'm still, still not coping. Just sitting here endlessly trying to find other people in my position, and generally failing to do so.

    And I've just been snapped at by someone on another (non BnB) messageboard. And it's Easter Sunday, and I'm pregnant, and I should be feeling happy.

    Help.
     
  2. Seraphim

    Seraphim Amazing Baby Girl

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    :hug:

    Some days belong under the duvet, some just need a breath of fresh air, some days you can wash your worries away, other days it's enough just to know there's someone to care x
     
  3. Frippledip

    Frippledip 3rd Tri!

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    :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:

    I can't begin to comprehend what you're going through...but I just wanted to offer up my support. :hugs:

    Maybe you could try to find a support group or a therapist in your area? I think talking it out with someone who is qualified in this are would help a lot.
     
  4. cs22

    cs22 Mum and ttc# 2

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  5. Wombat

    Wombat Married mum of 2:)

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    Massive hugs!!!:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:
     
  6. gracegrace

    gracegrace happily pregnant with 2nd

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    Thanks, all of you...
     
  7. KZD

    KZD Well-Known Member

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    awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.....here's a huuuuuuuuuuuuge hug for U :)
     
  8. embo216

    embo216 Mummy to 3 <3

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    :hugs: :hugs: Hope those hugs make you feel a tiny bit better hun.x
     
  9. FJL

    FJL Heartbroken after m/c

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    Oh sweetie I can't imagine how you must be feeling. Sending massive :hugs: your way xx
     
  10. elainegee

    elainegee Well-Known Member

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    Wish i could think of something to say to make you feel better/happier or more able to cope, but until you find someone else in the same position you are in i don't think there is anything I/we can say. The only thing you can rely on is the woman in here will always be a shoulder to cry on and listen to you when you are in need. Maybe talking to your doctor would help or your gyn doctor, as i am sure they have had patients go through this before and can give you some positive advice. Hope you feel better soon hun xxx
     

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