off work with stress :(

[Becci_Boo86]

Well I'm off work with stress and its driving me up the wall! The doctor wanted to put me on tablets but I said no cos of us trying for baby. I just want to know how ones are coping with the stress of TTC after MCs? This is just so hard for me. I don't think I have been right since I lost Daisy last july.

I know I have all ur support on here and you will help me in any way you can.

Thanks Becci x

 

[CandyApple19]

Oh dear sweetheart, it's a very hard thing to go through is stress/depression. I've been there too many times, and it can take one small thing to trigger it to start and one small thing for it to stop.......

All i can suggest is take the time you have off and indulge yourself in what you normally can't do. Even spend a whole day lazying around in your pjs eating whatever you want and watching movies you haven't had a chance to yet....

if you ever need a chat PM me, i've suffered depression and anxiety and stress from a young age, my mother is mentally ill and an alcoholic and i was her carer, it was hard to give my life up just to look after my parent, and when she got bad, she got really really bad.

Lots of love coming your way... . Kat.x

 

[Lucina]

Im sorry you are going through this. I can only speak from my own experience but what worked for me was taking some months off and focusing on other things for a while until I felt mentally stronger. Its not been easy though as the mc's have hit me hard. I felt spaced out a lot of the time, more short tempered and irritable and generally unable to deal with any minor everyday stresses. You do come through it though and only now I have felt able to start trying again and move on with my journey again.

 

[Becci_Boo86]

Thank u so much. I'm trying not to think of the things that are getting to me. I think work yesterday topped it. My boss just screamed in my face cos I hadn't got a letter from my GP for him. He made me fone my doctors there and then was so bad. I was in floods of tears infront of all the customers ( I work for sainsburys) I just flipped I couldn't stop crying it was so bad! Today I just been chilling. Made a big choc cake and getting hubby to make his amazing curry for tea. Its our wedding anniversary on monday so I'm trying to focus on that and all my prezzies to hehe!!

Xx