I think the hardest part for the man is that they have even less control than us and they can do nothing to make it better. My poor Dh has seen me go through 2 assisted MC and seen how much pain I was in and really struggled with being able to do nothing.... they hate to see us in so much emotional and physical pain, especially when they cannot fix it. Give him a little time to come to terms with your loss as you have both lost a baby and then maybe sit down with him and ask him the reason he wants to wait - I wouldnt mind betting his reasons are more to do with you than himself and once you have ascertained that, you can then try to explain that YOU are ready and willing to take the risk.... good luck babe - I agree with Freya, dont push him on it at the moment as it could make matters worse for your relationship xx