MrsHippo
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As my title says, OH is going on a stag weekend a couple of months after my due date. Its something that has been 'arranged' for a while now....I put the bunny ears over arranged as they have only just started arranging things properly now although started discussing it ages ago.
I feel really upset by it.... neither of us have ever been out the country seperately, I didn't like the idea of it originally but now we will have a new born baby yet he is still happy to go on it.
I don't know whether I am just being hormonal or a bitch or whatever but I don't want him to go but I can't tell him that. 1. because he won't be happy with me saying it and 2. I will look like a huge bitch of a girlfriend to everyone else. He will be spending loads of money too, they are going to Ibiza so the holiday itself is going to cost at least a couple of hundred (not sure of amount as I haven't actually spoken to him about it at all) then he will be spending a couple more out there. They are leaving on a Thursday evening and not returning until the Monday. I'm really not happy but don't know what to do my mum thinks I should go on a spa weekend or something but I have no one to go on it with... she suggested my sister but I know she won't have the money for it. I have a couple of friends I could ask also but they are the type to let you down.... and even if I did, that is another huge chunk of money and with my mat leave I can't just go throwing it away..
Sorry for the moan
I feel really upset by it.... neither of us have ever been out the country seperately, I didn't like the idea of it originally but now we will have a new born baby yet he is still happy to go on it.
I don't know whether I am just being hormonal or a bitch or whatever but I don't want him to go but I can't tell him that. 1. because he won't be happy with me saying it and 2. I will look like a huge bitch of a girlfriend to everyone else. He will be spending loads of money too, they are going to Ibiza so the holiday itself is going to cost at least a couple of hundred (not sure of amount as I haven't actually spoken to him about it at all) then he will be spending a couple more out there. They are leaving on a Thursday evening and not returning until the Monday. I'm really not happy but don't know what to do my mum thinks I should go on a spa weekend or something but I have no one to go on it with... she suggested my sister but I know she won't have the money for it. I have a couple of friends I could ask also but they are the type to let you down.... and even if I did, that is another huge chunk of money and with my mat leave I can't just go throwing it away..
Sorry for the moan