Oh good gravy!!!

Discussion in 'Long Term Trying To Conceive' started by JASMAK, Oct 27, 2008.

  1. JASMAK

    JASMAK Mom of three

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    This mom at my son's school (who I may add has HORRID breath) came up to me and told me how she is worried that she may be pregnant, and she feels like she is, and how she hope's she isn't because she isn't quite sure what she'd do with "it". It took every single ounce of strength in me to not scream/cry/kill...who knows...something...every ounce in me to stop myself. Then she asked if she could come over for tea!! Ummm..NO freaking way! Now, I should point out that she has NO IDEA about my struggles of TTC, and the fact I had a m/c almost 3 weeks ago...but, still....I don't even know this lady! Ugh!:hissy:
     
  2. Alexas Mommy

    Alexas Mommy Well-Known Member

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  3. Helen_26

    Helen_26 Carrying an ICSI Pixie

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    Stupid woman!!!
    It would have taken me a heck of a lot of restraint not to say/do something.
     
  4. Waiting2bMommy

    Waiting2bMommy Levi and Jax's Mommy!

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    *Hugs* sorry people are such dolts!
     
  5. chefamy1122

    chefamy1122 hating infertility

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    I hate people sometimes!!
    I'm really sorry :hug:
     
  6. rachelle1975

    rachelle1975 And then there were 3!!

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    What sort of weirdo has a conversation like that with a virtual stranger???!!

    Big :hug: hun xx

    (maybe offer her some gum/mints for her stinky breath next time she says anything insensitive! I should imagine that will stop her in her tracks!!)
     
  7. FJL

    FJL Heartbroken after m/c

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    Even though she doesn't know of your struggles, I think that was really inappropriate of her to have said that to you if she doesn't know you very well.

    That must've been really hard for you to hear, while inside screaming, wanting to tell her that if she is pg that she is VERY lucky.

    This whole journey has certainly changed my views on many things, and one of those being that I will NEVER be that person to ask someone if they're having kids, discussing something with someone who if they're going through hard times might be offended etc.
     
  8. Stardancer

    Stardancer Well-Known Member

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    My thoughts exactly. Stupid woman.

    :hug:
     
  9. Schmelly

    Schmelly Regaining my life...

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    Some people don't know how lucky they are. Sorry you had to listen to her going on :hug:
     
  10. Angeldust

    Angeldust Guest

    Some people are pathetic and there the type of people who have babys like rabbits and dont even want them it makes you angry

    I thought this was about gravy :dohh: :rofl: i was ready to post nothing can beat kfc gravy :rofl:

    :hug:
     
  11. JASMAK

    JASMAK Mom of three

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    :rofl: Oh, and I agree about KFC gravy. I love their poutines! The BEST!
     
  12. Angeldust

    Angeldust Guest

    :rofl: there lovely kfc rocks :rofl:
     
  13. celine

    celine Well-Known Member

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    The nerve of some poeple!
     
  14. pixielou

    pixielou Well-Known Member

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    Oh Jasmak, what a horrible situation. I would have felt like screaming at her!
     

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