Hi I've had a tough pregnancy so far been hospitalised at 7weeks due to not being able to keep anything down and being really dehidrated. was pretty much sick all day everyday. now i'm maybe sick once or twice a day. when i was in hospital oh came to visit with the kids and said "what are you in here for theres nothing wrong with you" and "ask if you can get out tonight so i can go to work tomorrow and you can look after the kids" he made out it was a joke but it upset me. pretty much since i've been pregnant he's spoke to me like crap but makes out it's all a joke and i'm me thats taking it the wrong way. Tonight he was tickling me and i leaned on his arm by accident but he was fine so i laughed and he said "yeah laugh see if you think it's so funny when your in labour and i'm pointing and laughing and saying haha your fa**y is killing you. he has also made plenty of comments about how inconsiderate my long labours are and how i cant just go into labour at day time. i've told him on numeorous occasions it upsets me and if he continues he wont be coming to the scan (which is monday) and the birth. to which he says i'm in the wrong. I had pnd with our 2nd daughter and i feel because of him its coming back again. i dont want to talk to health professions about this and i have no family. i pretty much dont have any support. ive been crying again tonight and i dont know where to turn or who to talk to. thanks for reading. Ps if it helps the baby was planned.