So.. my mom is insane to begin with- she's constantly in my business all the time.. for instance.. she actually didn't find out i was pregnant from me but she opened my mail and there was my OB ultrasound letter from the doc! Then she gets in my bills and stuff like that. I'm fine. STOP. When she found out.. she didn't even call me .. noo.. she called everyone in my family.. THEN ME. Then shes going on and going about how i should have a spare bedroom at my house for when she babysits. I didn't tell her no or yes that i needed to talk to him first about it. Then before i told her yes or no she calls me to say "i found a bed to put in that back spare room of yours." i don't go anywhere.. i plan on quitting my job anyways (he's the bread winner) and it's not like she lives desperately far away (20 minutes) REALLY? I didn't even tell you yes and you bought a bed and telling me yours gonna put in my spare room in MY well actually fiances house?!? I just have a feeling she's gonna be one of those grandmothers who are always up your ass and think their the mother. And i told my finance about it and he's like "I hope she realizes i have a mom too." I feel like shes just MOVING IN. maybe this is my hormones.. but really.. i appreciate your trying to help but i dont want you here 247. She calls me constantly wanting to know if i'm doing this and that..I have a feeling imma be at war with my mother. anybody else with this problem or have had this problem?