This weekend OH brings up that he wants our daughter to live in India with his parents for 2 years when she turns 1. No way am I letting someone else raise my daughter for 2 years! I haven't even decided when I will go with OH and LO to India to visit for a short time. (I'm not doing all the vaccines, so not sure if it would be safe to take LO there when young or if BF will help protect her.) Has anyone else heard of this? He said most of the Indians living in the US do this. I can't imagine wanting someone else (even a grandparent) to have your child for 2 years of their early life. Maybe they could be able to come here and live for awhile and we could let them babysit while we are at work instead of daycare.