So... OH is drinking tonight and he comes to me saying I don't show his son as much love as I show my daughter. My daughter is a cling on and his son is distant. Kira talks about EVERYTHiNG and Brenden not so much. Justin (OH) had the audacity to tell me he guarantees that his son doesn't love me and if he asked him if he did he would say no! Maybe I do show Kira a little more attention because she's an attention hog. Brenden just plays his video games all the time or is yelling at Kira for everything she says. They fight and argue about everything. They would argue over what color the sky is. Brenden is 12 and Kira is 6 so there is a significant age difference and Kira just doesn't see things like brenden does. I just can't believe Justin would say that to me and I know he wouldn't have if he was sober! He would've worded it differently but afterwards I got in the bathtub and cried the whole time because I do love brenden I just don't know exactly how to show it. My family is very distant and doesn't say I love you all the time. I say it to Kira because all of a sudden when I got pregnant she's says it every 10 minutes and I tell her I love her too. I just needed to get this out and it's pointless talking to OH right now it would just turn into an argument and me running to my room crying. I'm so depressed right now and OH doesn't even notice he's outside drunk dialing his friends oblivious to the tears running down my face right now. Anyways thank you ladies for taking the time to read this. I hope everyone has a H&H pregnancy!