OH wants a baby now!

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  1. Kimboowee

    Kimboowee Complete

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    Had to tell him no though!

    Anyone else making OH wait? I would love another baby, but im not sure how I would cope with 2 under 2!
     
  2. amyclaire

    amyclaire TTC late July 2010 :D

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    so jealous! wish mine did! :p xxx
     
  3. Beltane

    Beltane Mother of 3 Boys!

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    My husband wants to try this week! I am fertile as of Sunday. I really want to wait until Winter though.
     
  4. mum2morgan

    mum2morgan Anxiously awaiting #3

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    We are waiting for a bit of financial security and he refuses to talk in depth about it until we get it, which is logical really but i can't help myself lol.
    He does comment on everything i say and when i come up with a problem he reassures me so he wants it too lol!
     
  5. wannabubba#4

    wannabubba#4 Maybe 1More! DD+3DS <3

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    I am so jealous too lol

    My DH says he's 100% on board now -we are gonna start ttc in October, HIS idea to start earlier as we were planning on beginning of 2010, which is great but...

    I would have loved for him to be the one to say 'My darling, I love you so much and I really want another baby with you' haha
    rather than me always being the one to say it. I have hinted, cajoled and at times railroaded (only kidding really) my DH for the chance to start ttc this baby since last January. 8 months hard graft, but he's finally on board lol
     
  6. Ratty

    Ratty Well-Known Member

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    I don't want to be pregnant again!!!!!!!!!! My OH can't wait for another. It sucks.

    I've got so many people telling me its cruel to have an only child. Thing is I hardly have time with my one child now as I work full time. What happens with I have to share that time with a brother or a sister, its not fair to him.
     
  7. lil_miss_pink

    lil_miss_pink Mummy to Charlie

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    Lol wanna swap OH's?! You can have my reluctant / responsible one - I want a baby now!!! ;-)
     
  8. RedRose19

    RedRose19 Expecting baby 3!

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    maybe when you have two it would be easier.. because your son would have someone to play with, his sibling when ur busy etc

    i wish my DF was the one to say to me i would like to ttc lol!

    but were gonna ttc soon as AF gets here i think :happydance:
     
  9. Sooz

    Sooz Paige & Mason's Mum!

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    I'm the reluctant responsible one here, hubby has wanted a LO for a couple of years but I keep finding reasons why we are not 'ready' yet. Was probably going to run out of excuses next year 'cept now we both want to move home.....everything is a bit up in the air since the wedding.
     
  10. lozzy21

    lozzy21 Mummy to Niamh

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    I wish my OH would say something like that, think you self lucky.
     
  11. bunnyg82

    bunnyg82 Mum to 2 gorgeous boys

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    Ours is kinda a joint decision (but mostly OH's!) I wish my hubby was as excited really! x
     
  12. amylk87

    amylk87 WTT for No.1

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    We're both waiting together lol.
     
  13. candeur

    candeur Well-Known Member

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    OH really, really wants to start trying now, he nags all the time! I really don't want two
    too close together so I've told him we can start trying next year July/August time.
    I've got the coil fitted which is tamper proof just incase :rofl:
     

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