OMFG.. Bribe?

[Karuto]

My Mother, yes the person who gave birth to me phoned and asked if she could bribe me with money to get myself 'sorted'.
x

 

[vpeterman720]

wait she wants you to get the "A" word??
and she's trying to bribe you to do so??

 

[sequeena]

That's disgusting

 

[Karuto]

wait she wants you to get the "A" word??
and she's trying to bribe you to do so??

Yup.
Apparently my life will end otherwise.

 

[vpeterman720]

wow what a horrible thing to say/do!!
My mom agreed when I told her that was out of the ?
I'm sure that after a while she will come around but still....WOW

 

[xprincessx]

im shocked! my OH's mother wanted this and as soon as my mum found out what she'd said she was absolutely livid and kept saying there was no way i was getting it done

i couldnt imagine if she'd said that to me...it's disgusting! x

 

[youngmum2b]

Wow, is all i can say
I punched the last person who told me to get 1 lool, i was already in a bad mood n the woman pissed me off even more!

 

[vpeterman720]

Wow, is all i can say
I punched the last person who told me to get 1 lool, i was already in a bad mood n the woman pissed me off even more!

hahahaha! I would've loved to see that!

 

[rainbows_x]

Wow!

hun x

 

[libbymarks198]

aw hun i know how you feel my mum did that to me to last time and then when she found out i had a m/c she brought me 20 thousand dollar car..

im sure she will get over it, if i was you i wouldnt speak to her until she changes her mind. that is just mean and discusting, what did you say to here

 

[newmommy23]

my family bribed me with thousands of dollars to get an "a" until i was 25 weeks pregnant. they are still trying to get me to give her up for adoption, needless to say they will not be any part of my daughter's life. its sick what people think is ok.

 

[Desi's_lost]

Fob's parents offered 10k, people are sick.

 

[17thy]

That is sickening. I can't even imagine my mother asking me that.

 

[Burchy314]

That is just wrong! They are supposed to be there to support you. I knew my parents and my OHs parents are totally against that which is very good, but trust me she will come around when she realizes thats not going to happen and shes having a grandkid. Just give it time.

 

[Karuto]

Thanks girls I appreciate the support
My mum nearly fifty but thinks everything is just as it was when she was a teen.
In my opinion nowadays teen pregnancies aren't a huge deal.
I'll be 20 when my bubz comes along so I won't even be a blooming teen.
x

 

[MissMamma]

wow i've never heard of anyhting like this before! I can't imagine my parents saying that to me! I don't know how i'd react. I really hope she does come round, you'll just have to show her how mature and sensibly you're taking the pregnancy. I don't really know what to say apart from to stay strong. You're having a baby with or without her support now, we're all here to help you hun ..xx

 

[rubixcyoob.]

That's disgusting. xxx

 

[stephaniexx]

aww hun thats awful, im sure she'll come around, bet you cant keep her away when the baby arrives lol.

my OHs brother asked why we were keeping the baby the other day.. insensitive idiot. hes the one whos 28, still lives with his mum and wont work or pay board, ect, when my OH and i have our own house etc. he also asked if we were disappointed that shes a girl.. as if, im over the moon!

x

 

[sleepinbeauty]

You having an abortion is not up to her. She'll get over it. If she doesn't and she's going to give you a hard time forever (which I seriously doubt) then maybe she doesn't need to be around.

edited to add:

stephaniexx--Your brother is lucky he isn't mine. I'd have punched his lights out if he said that to me. Glad to see the "women are beneath men" mindset is still going strong. (Unless you were hoping for a boy and I missed something?)

Either way, this kind of remark is still spouted out way too often (even now-a-days!)!

Sorry. Mini-rant escaped. lol

 

[mayb_baby]

Thats terrible hopfully she will come around xxx