jinxii
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Anyone else out there planning on one and done? We had a hard time getting this one (15 years of trying) and I am not willing to go through it again. My husband is also quite a bit older than me at 45 and I think it's a little late to be planning to have more than one. What I hate is how everyone reacts to that. I've heard "your kid is going to be so spoiled", "It's cruel not to give them siblings", "why even have one?", and so many other mean things. And why do people always ask if you're going to have more when they find out you're pregnant??! Let me get done with this one first!! My mom was kind of snarky about me being one and done and I told her I wanted to enjoy my child and being a mom without the stress of having more than one to focus on. That shut her right up.. she had four and practically lost the plot because she couldn't handle it. Some women are great at having lots of kids... I know I wouldn't be one of them!