We've been TTC for over 8 years because we both have reproductive problems. RE recommends IVF of course but DH is dead set against it. We've done 4 IUIs with a combination of meds and injectables. We decided to move on to donor IUI but later found a sperm bank that allows home delivery. So now we're planning on doing a donor insem in February if nothing goes awry. I feel really excited that we might actually get pregnant, still a baffling thought to me! And I love that we can do it at home rather than wait on the clinical process to work out. But on the other hand, I wonder if we're taking a step backwards because we're just doing a vaginal insem rather than an IUI. The increase of guaranteed sperm from DHs to the donor's is an incredible number but I still worry it might be the wrong direction.