Hi ladies, just wanted your opinion or if anyone has any similar experiences. We are TTC at the minute but are plannng to get married in 2012/2013 where we will hopefully (fingers crossed) have a baby/toddler but even if we don't our plans are still the same. so either way, in 2012 OH can cash in some shares he has which we are planning to use for a big trip to florida and maybe las vegas. We would love love love to get married at a gorgeous hotel near disney and have a lovely meal and watch the fireworks at night. This would open to all our friends and family to come but tbh i think my parents and sister would be the only ones who could afford it. OHs parents would never be able to afford it without borrowing money and OHs dad hates flying/foreign places (whole other rant!!)etc etc etc and has health problems. 2 of his brothers and wives MAY come but his sis def wouldnt. Now we are fine with this if were really honest. i know it should be a family occasion too but my parents i dont get along v well with and tbh i would prefer them not to be there and we do feel that it would be a disappointment yes but not enough to give up our dream wedding. Especially if we have a LO as just being there as our little family would be more than enough. Im thinking of maybe hiring out a lovely country pub our family has stables near when we get back and wearing my dress etc and just havin a big bbq with bouncy castle for kids etc and having a kind of wedding reception to invite family and friends and get photos of everyone and that kind of thing. Has anyone ever done this or know anyone whos done this and have they regretted it or loved it?