Opinions please ...

[Dm47]

Hi ladies,

I am new and have a 9 month old son.I have lurked for a while but have a dilemma I am unsure of.

One of my best friends with a three month old has admitted to me her husband has been losing his temper with their three month old. When I asked how she said shouting and calling her a noisy little bitch? She also said he has callEd her the c word when he is really mad and left her to cry when mum is really against it. I don't know what to say to me he sounds depressed but he has been violent in the past and I don't want to exarcebate
the situation. I have been with my man for 10 years so she says she i am out of touch. I wondered how best to support

Thanks for the help x

 

[mrsbeano]

I would just be there for her. I admit that in those early days I certainly uttered the words, "why won't you just go to fucking sleep" etc etc which is really unlike me but you can be a different person when you're sleep deprived.

As long as he is stepping away when it does get too much, its okay.

Do they have support - someone to take their LO for a while so they can have time out?