Right to cut a long story short me and OH get married in august. HIs brother and girlfriend get married 2013. I originally wanted purple theme for my wedding. She was having green and ivory. Anyway I changed my mind to teal and she wants purple. Now I'm struggling to pick and have gone off teal, its too hard to match. I want to go back to purple. Now the weddings are totally different, there will only be about 20 of the same people there. I would have not had the purple but she has sent me a right arsery message. What would you all do??