Orgasms and sex during early pregnancy

[mummytobe_93]

I know that it's fine to have sex and orgasms in early pregnancy but seriously it's painful as in really crampy.

Anyone else feel the same? I was like this the whole way through my last pregnancy too x

 

[Buffyx]

I haven't had one since my BFP. I just find sex uncomfortable at the moment just in general. I hope it changes.

 

[mummytobe_93]

Yes we are the same only done it once since I found out, I'm really cautious. Wouldn't make me so worried if it didn't hurt as much! X

 

[Buffyx]

We have done it a few times, but I'm not even close to an orgasm!!

 

[pansorie]

I had no problems, tbh. Sex drive stayed the same or slightly increased, and orgasm was same as usual.

 

[LittleLala]

My husband is too scared to touch me! He said he doesn't want to have sex in the first tri because if it causes bleeding we will both freak out (that is true). Also, I'm so uncomfortable that I definitely do not feel sexy, or want sex, at all.
(TMI ALERT! I do feel bad for him though, so I give him a "helping hand" now and again hahaha)

 

[Charliemarina]

I was the same in first tri it hurt a fait bit and was very uncomfortable. ... now it just brings on strong braxton hicks contractions and I just cant carry on xx

 

[Bubbles1088]

I had that happen a couple of times super early on. The first time, around 4.5 weeks, it hurt so bad, I thought I was going to vomit. I was all hot and sweaty laying on the bathroom floor. DH had to help me to bed and we called the Dr. (of course it was a Friday afternoon right before the Dr. closed when this happened) who told me to drink lots of water, be lazy all weekend, and that it was probably just because he "hit something" and it's very sensitive there because of all the blood. It lasted for about 20 minutes. The second time, it was just a light cramp for a minute, then it went away. Since then, no issues, just sometimes light tan spotting a day or so later, which is also normal.

 

[greats]

It just makes my uterus feel very full the next day. No cramping, etc. but every one is different as to how their bodies respond

 

[babyvaughan]

I've had the light tan discharge a day PR to after it freaked me at first but I've had several scans and baby is progressing great so I've finally calmed down. If I O it gets crampy for like a minute so I avoid it. I'm not really into anyways I feel blah but I also feel bad for him so I give I'm here and there!

 

[Calcifer]

I haven't dared yet. I just feel like I couldn't cope with spotting etc afterwards so I'm waiting until my 12 week scan and will slowly get back into it after that. to be honest I've not felt like it at all since the BFP, though I can see the urge returning now, so all good :thumb up: DH is super supportive, he is as worried as me about causing spotting etc...

 

[QueenQueso]

I'm 9w now and we've dtd exactly 4 times since we dtd a whole bunch at O time. I really just haven't been into it at all. Also ((TMI)) last night was time #4 and kind of during and after, I had an uncomfortable burning sensation the whole time. I can only think that must mean that I've got either a UTI or a yeast infection coming on. I have trouble having both of those recurrently during pregnancy.