orgasms help you to concieve?

[highhopes19]

ive read a few threads on here where women have said that orgasms during DTD has helped them to concieve
im really worried that i wont concieve as i really can't orgasm i dont know why i just can't
i never can during actual DTD
will it reduce my chances of concieving?

just wondering what your opinions are on it?

 

[missymoon]

I don't think it will actually matter too much, but having an orgasm causes the cervix to dip and it is meant to mean than more sperm are drawn up into the uterus.

 

[plutosblue]

You mean you can't orgasm at all or just during "the deed"
I can't during, so I always do after with Sally my trusty vibrator

I don't suppose it matters tho hun - lots of women must have sex without the big o and get pregnant, it just supposedly helps as the contractions kind of suck it in!

 

[Babyluck]

Can't you get you oh to make you orgasm before intercourse??? xxx

 

[Lillismommy]

I conceived my daughter without having one. You can definitely get pregnant without one.

 

[Serene123]

I didn't O when we conceived my daughter, first try.

This time I O every time and here I am 23 cycles later, no baby!

I don't think it matters x

 

[sept10]

There is no evidence to show this is true. People say you contract and this draws the semen in however it has been shown that you contract during intercourse without having an orgasm anyway!!

 

[lovie]

sorry for the TMI but if I dont O before my boyfriend cums I get him to help me after, I think it will work as well so long as you stay still and dont get up and let the sperms escape. On the other hand tho I am sure that it is possible to to get pregnant without the big O.

I read somewhere that the female orgasm is there to make the woman tired and want to lie still for a while therefor helping conception but giving the sperm a chance to swim in to the cervix. But you can do that anyway without the O.

baby dust to you

 

[Kadan82]

Thats a good question. I know you can get preggo without orgasm but I've heard both...that it can help with conceiving and I've also heard that it can make it harder to conceive because of the acidity in the orgasm cm. So I was kind of curious which one was correct. I can't orgasm with intercourse either but I can with a vibrator and have thought about doing that either before or after bding. I just never know what info to believe!

 

[threebirds]

Good q
Ive been having the big o pre-intercourse - but not getting preg - I wonder if that's making my 'environment' too acidic for his swimmers??

 

[WannabemomV]

I heard both sides to this. An orgasm can make your cm acidy which helps the sperm that produce baby girls! I also read that if you orgasm After your partner your uterus contracts allowing the Male producing sperm in.. This cycle I have been orgasming After my DH (with help from a trusty vib). I don't want my DH down there messing with the sperm- Haha
I mean it can't hurt to O? If anything I would think it relaxes you.. And everyone says (Blah) "if you would only relax you will get pregnant"

 

[tink30]

I think you will definetly get pregnant with or without the big O.. no contraction needed.. they Swim .. they just need an entrance

 

[NC_Sarah]

Actually, one of the "tips" to help conceive a girl is for the female not to orgasm as ph levels afterwards kills off the female sperm

 

[berniegroves]

Now i am just confused! To O or not to O...that is the question!!!

 

[highhopes19]

You mean you can't orgasm at all or just during "the deed"
I can't during, so I always do after with Sally my trusty vibrator

I don't suppose it matters tho hun - lots of women must have sex without the big o and get pregnant, it just supposedly helps as the contractions kind of suck it in!

i usually orgasm before DTD iywkim
but i never actually can during it x

 

[highhopes19]

Can't you get you oh to make you orgasm before intercourse??? xxx

i do usually orgasm before intercourse, will that have the same affect then?xxx

 

[Bunnylicious]

I always use a vibrator to help me O during intercourse
Hubby doesn't care. LOL

well, I think before intercourse is fine?
there's a BnB member who orgasmed a couple of times before intercourse to make her vagina wetter.
She got BFP.

 

[ancl]

crazy isnt it that you cant just do the deed and get pregnant which for some it does work this way GOOD LUCK

 

[mom22boys]

I dont think so! My first no O I had not even figured out what one was at that time. I got pregnant the first month with him.

 

[Gemmamumof2]

TMI but if i orgasm i get very wet and cant keep spermies to stay inside LOL... as just leeks out with mine.. so i havnt orgasmed this month will see in 2 weeks if it worked