OT but Dh works with alot of pretty Girls and feeling jealous!

[Mrs.Ping]

So my Dh works at a ski resort as a chef and of course he is around pretty skinny young girls all day long and if any body has worked in the cooking department you know how flirty the atmosphere can be. Dh I know does not flirt but he also does not tell them when to stop as he dosent want to be rude. I had problems with a few girls last year( seasonal job) being overly slutty one in particular that worked behind the line with him would text him good night on her days off and when he had a day off the other kitchen staff said that she would mope around all day being depressed that he wasent there so she could flirt with him she even went as far as trying to flirt with other guys to make him jealous. she knew he was engaged and still tried to steal him away. I was upset whit him over this as he didn't tell me what was going on because he said he did not flirt back. but being a women I just knew she was trouble the moment I saw her. you know when you get that red flag that pops up in your head because you can see a slut from a mile away. well this year I dont have that feeling about any of the girls he works with but still I am jealous that they get to see each other all day and I feel like I am just so unattractive compared to them ATM. They all know he is my husband and that I am pregnant and we are due in march but still i cant help it. My dh is constantly getting hit on and looked at by pretty women all the time ( He is quite the stud)lol so you would think I would be used to it but I guess being pregnant and overly emotional and feeling extremely huge and ugly has just gotten to me.

WOOOOO sorry for the long rant just needs some support I guess.

 

[myheadismush]

awww dont worry hun, it sounds like he is trustworthy and committed to you

i think its pregnancy hormones that make us crazy! my OH is a drummer! he works with singers and musicians and young girls all the time and when i first fell pregnant i was a total bitch about it all LOL! i even told him he wasnt allowed to hello hug anything with breasts hahaha!

 

[ashley_gee89]

Why did this girl have his number in the first place

 

[aam310]

Aww I went through this but now I feel much better. I went up to his job to eat and got to know everyone so I felt much better.

 

[bababel]

Doesn't sound like there's any looming threat to your relationship now! I know it's hard not to be jealous, but hormones can make us act irrational because of our insecurities. It sounds like you two have a great relationship and no amount of slutty girls can interfere with that. Plus, soon he'll be a daddy and he'll fall in love with you (the mother of his child!) all over again.

On the other hand, it's sometimes hard for me to practice what I preach. My husband is a paleontologist and every summer he brings students out with him to Montana to dig up dinosaurs. This year he had a record amount of students sign up to go to Montana with him - 12. 10 of them are girls!! So this summer he'll be out in the middle of nowhere with 10 19-22 year old chicks for a month. Grrreeeat. Thankfully I trust my husband or else I'd be going mad!

 

[Mrs.Ping]

wow thank that must be hard having to deal with all the groupies!LOL yes he is trust worthy I just have always been a bit jealous of other women maybe because every women in my life has tried to steal my man that is why I have no friends! but we have been together for 6yrs and I have slowly gotten over it but now it seem to be rearing its ugly head. I know i am a pretty girl but i guess I just think others are prettier then me! maybe because they are younger and i am 31. when we got together i was 25 and he was 22 he is now 28 and so he is still n his 20s and I am over that stage! just feeling the pressure of normal growing up I guess!

 

[Mrs.Ping]

Why did this girl have his number in the first place

every body had eachothers number due to the fact that the ski resort is 40 mins away and everyone would have to car pool. it was costing 20$ a day in gas just to get there and back. she never car pooled so i think personaly she just wanted his # to be slutty!