OT RANT...my hubby is being an ass

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  1. littledancer

    littledancer Well-Known Member

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    So, today is my third wedding anniversary with my husband, the plan was to go out for dinner when he gets home from work.

    So he drops me off and I say "Keep in touch and let me know when you're done so we can figure out timing for the restaurant tonight" to which he replies "What do you mean, aren't you just going to go straight to the restaurant on the bus from work and wait for me there???"....bear in mind that the restaurant is 5 minutes from our house.

    So I say "well I'd be arriving at the restaurant for 6:30pm then and you won't get there until 9:30 so it makes more sense for me to go home first"

    and he says "well just never mind then, obviously tonight is not a good night, we'll go out another time" and proceeds to burn rubber out of the parking lot.

    WTF??

    So I call him and I'm like "why are you pissed off, I don't understand" and he says "well I assumed you had forgotten about tonight and that pissed me off"....HUN???

    Can somebody please point out how the statement : "Keep in touch and let me know when you're done so we can figure out timing for the restaurant tonight" implies that I'd forgotten?

    ARGH:growlmad::growlmad::growlmad::growlmad::growlmad::growlmad:
     
  2. Buffy71

    Buffy71 Mummy to Harriet!

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    Eh? Sounds like the hormone fairy dropped the grumpy pregnancy hormones on the wrong body in bed last night.

    I'm as confused as you are sweety. I hate it when they act like that!

    Hope he comes to his senses and all is well for this evening.

    :hugs:

    xxx
     
  3. redpoppy

    redpoppy Well-Known Member

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    Sorry I'm finding everything really funny right now so probably shouldn't post. But that seems hilarious. He's obviously gone nuts. Phone emergency services and have him taken away in a straight jacket. Maybe he misheard you?

    It's so weird when men act like women. We have hormone imbalances! We're allowed! :haha:
     
  4. QTPie

    QTPie Well-Known Member

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    Look, you have to understand... men just aren't as clever as women... that is all there is to it :winkwink:

    You have to excuse them being "a bit thick" sometimes because it is genetic (tied in with the Y chromosome....) :haha:

    Hope that your husband behaves himsellf later, that you remember why you married him and that you have a happy anniversary :hugs:

    QT
     
  5. _Vicky_

    _Vicky_ Mum to twins

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    hahahaha poor bloke all this man bashing hehehehe

    Hope it gets sorted and you have a lovely evening xxxxxxxxxxx
     
  6. Shelby2007

    Shelby2007 Khyler Rae born 1/26/10

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    MAYBE he had a surprise for you.. and wanted you to go there so he could see your face when you walk in and he's already there..
     
  7. _Vicky_

    _Vicky_ Mum to twins

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    oohh yes good point or maybe he has arranged something else oooooohhh yes that would make sense.
     
  8. becky77

    becky77 mum & 3rd tri

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    Hope you sort it out and his pmt disappears so you can have a lovely anniversary meal .
    Happy Anniversaryxx
     
  9. redpoppy

    redpoppy Well-Known Member

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    Well you see.. I thought that... but then I thought; if i say it, and he is JUST being an ASS then maybe it best I don't say it. :blush:
     
  10. QTPie

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    That's what I was thinking - best not to raise the OP's expectations... :winkwink:

    QT
     
  11. sera

    sera Well-Known Member

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    well first of all happy anniversary! :hugs:
    And try not to worry about him, just let him cool off (and you cool off too) and come together when you are both able to talk about it.
    Honestly men have to learn to listen and to not think about what they are going to say next whilst the other is talking!!! good luck babe and tell us what happens!
    xoxoxo
     
  12. littledancer

    littledancer Well-Known Member

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    Yeah, that's really not my hubby lol...he just called and said "So I'm an asshole, sorry about that"
     
  13. littledancer

    littledancer Well-Known Member

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    Yeah, that's really not my hubby lol...he just called and said "So I'm an asshole, sorry about that"
     
  14. littledancer

    littledancer Well-Known Member

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    oops..somehow posted twice...
     
  15. redpoppy

    redpoppy Well-Known Member

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    HAHA! that's actually really cute! :haha:
     
  16. littledancer

    littledancer Well-Known Member

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    ya, we're usually good at admitting when we're wrong at least...he called and I was like "I don't understand why you're angry" and he said..."well you can google for an explanation, I believe the term would be 'asshole'"

    *giggle* how can you stay mad at that?
     
  17. Barneyboo

    Barneyboo Mummy of 2 beauty's

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    AW! I cant imagine how you could stay mad at him :hugs:

    Have a lovely time and Happy Aniversary x x x :flower:
     
  18. MrsVenn

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    They're a different species and I will never understand them..mine's exactly the same. I regularly walk around with a confused look on my face when we have a bit of a barney.
     
  19. redpoppy

    redpoppy Well-Known Member

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    very gallant and funny. :happydance: so glad its done now. :thumbup:
     
  20. littledancer

    littledancer Well-Known Member

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    ...and roses just arrived at my desk :kiss:
     

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