Hey all just looking for abit of advice My OH and myself have always wanted a boy, but I will be overwhelmed with joy boy or girl. I actually put my OH on the spot for the first time last night and said what if we have a girl? He jokingly said don't say that. I said well what if we do? He said in all honesty I would be really disappointed. I said jokingly well you've probably jinxed it. And he said I want a girl (to try and jinx it again so we have a boy)It took me back because he didn't follow it on. I said that's really nice like we can choose what sex we have, what will happen if we find out it's a girl at the gender scan are you going to be unhappy for the rest of the pregnancy? He said no he will love her asmuch as a boy but still just want a boy. What can I say to this? It's putting a downer on the fact of *what if* we are baking a little girl in here? What would other people think/do? Thanks for reading everyone.