Need to know if I'm overreacting Seen the inlaws twice the past two weeks each time anything I say regarding lo is ignored and mil takes him away from me Examples 1. Hadn't slept during large family gathering, so I said to dh - think I'll take lo to conservatory where it's quiet see if he will settle. Response was no he's fine, few minutes later passed to mil who immediately stood up and took him to the conservatory 2. Today at family party, kids music lots if guests once again lo hadn't slept and I could see he was getting agitated I said to dh and mil think I might put him in my baby carrier and take him for a walk . Response no he's alright, few minutes later told dh to give mil lo, immediately got the buggy and walked off when asked where she's going said out the front. I said he won't sleep in the buggy whilst walking better just to put him in quiet corner. Go out the front 5 mins later and they weren't there had gone for walk 3. Due feed time and asked if she could feed him . Am I being possessive but it makes me feel like my lo is some kind of doll. Feed time to me I've worked hard for him to eat properly and sip water etc and don't like others feeding him. 4. I then passed mil lo later and she straight away walked off into the games room with him 5. When week old he was crying after his feed and mil clapped her hands took him off me and walked off without saying anything to me. I told dh that was plain rude 6. She calls lo 'my baby' I'm aware she wants to spend time with him which is why I pass him to her as much as possible but hate the fact that she doesn't listen to what I ask in regards to lo and feel like she takes over with little regard for me .... Am I being over sensitive and protective? Thanks for letting me rant Ps I have to tell dh to let his family hold lo as he never let's others hold him so I have to remind him his family don't see him all the time. Also dh said I'm weak and should say if I'm not happy but how can I to my mil.