HI there, I'm new to this forum, I stumbled across it this morning and think it's the best i've come across so far Anyway, I wanted to ask is anyone will be attending or already has attended your 12 week scan, and if you had to go alone because of your partners/ baby's fathers work commitments or other reasons/excuses? My boyfriend promised me he would attend the scan, as I felt it was really important for us, and especially for me. Without going into too much boring detail of why he can't come (as he could of but he messed it up) I feel really let down and kind of sad that i'm doing it alone, as i've been waiting for this scan for weeks, just to reassure me that our baby is ok as I have worried myself sick over these bad cramps i've been having. We've been through a turbulent 3 months as the pregnancy was unplanned, and having only been together for 8 months (i'm 26,partner is 23) I wanted the reassurance of him now looking forward to the child and not seeing this pregnancy as 'the beginning of the end'. Were living together and all is fine, but just wish some blokes would realise how important this scan is for us women! Anyway, sorrry for rambling. I have my scan tomorrow, where I will be 12.5weeks, however I think it's more like 12.3weeks. I just hope all will be ok.