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Hey everyone,
Just a little rant really as I am so annoyed at df's boss. He's really not being very fair. My df works split shifts, evenings and weekends so he works 5 evenings a week and his 2 days off are always weekdays.
Recently his boss hasn't been writing the rota out until Friday for the week beginning Sunday!! So at the moment I still don't know if my partner is working or not on Monday!
As a consequence it means that I can't organise anything that I need to do without my daughter! I desperately need my hair cut and I've also got a tooth that needs removing but I can't book either appointment because by the time I find out what df is working the dentist and hairdresser are full up for those days!!
Df has tried talking to his boss about it but he just isn't listening, he doesn't seem to care.
I had arranged a meeting with someone to start doing some volunteer work on Monday and df has asked his boss if he is off so I can go, and his boss replied with "your mrs shouldn't plan to do stuff until you find your days off should she? You can't come and ask me for specific days off just so your mrs can go to a meeting"!!!
How am I supposed to book this meeting when I don't even know what he's working til 2 days before the week begins??
I'm so frustrated and I know df has tried to speak to his boss but he's just being unreasonable.
I'm getting more upset because we can't afford nursery fees for me to go back to work full time so we were just planning on my working part time on the weekdays df is off work, but there's no way we can do that if his boss never let's him know his rota in advance?
I'm starting to really worry about what we will do when my maternity is over.
Ok I feel better now I've vented lol! Thanks for reading
Just a little rant really as I am so annoyed at df's boss. He's really not being very fair. My df works split shifts, evenings and weekends so he works 5 evenings a week and his 2 days off are always weekdays.
Recently his boss hasn't been writing the rota out until Friday for the week beginning Sunday!! So at the moment I still don't know if my partner is working or not on Monday!
As a consequence it means that I can't organise anything that I need to do without my daughter! I desperately need my hair cut and I've also got a tooth that needs removing but I can't book either appointment because by the time I find out what df is working the dentist and hairdresser are full up for those days!!
Df has tried talking to his boss about it but he just isn't listening, he doesn't seem to care.
I had arranged a meeting with someone to start doing some volunteer work on Monday and df has asked his boss if he is off so I can go, and his boss replied with "your mrs shouldn't plan to do stuff until you find your days off should she? You can't come and ask me for specific days off just so your mrs can go to a meeting"!!!
How am I supposed to book this meeting when I don't even know what he's working til 2 days before the week begins??
I'm so frustrated and I know df has tried to speak to his boss but he's just being unreasonable.
I'm getting more upset because we can't afford nursery fees for me to go back to work full time so we were just planning on my working part time on the weekdays df is off work, but there's no way we can do that if his boss never let's him know his rota in advance?
I'm starting to really worry about what we will do when my maternity is over.
Ok I feel better now I've vented lol! Thanks for reading