so, 2 years ago my husnabd and i moved into his mothers house, when she moved in with her fiance. Its been nice, but...i keep noticing things that needs to be done, maintence and overal general repairs to the house. Now we have a baby on the way, and with his sister getting married, nows the time to get the stuff done asap. but with his sisters wedding its been hell trying to get them to get anything done. We gave her a list per her request, of things that need to be done, there was only 8 things on the list, and i feel like one thing a month would be sufficant enough to get done in a timely manner and be less costly overall. However, me and my husbands feeling is that we're not too confidant things will get done in the timely manner. I mean, theres mold issues, wiring issues, carpet thats been here for 30 years that needs to be replaced, its one thing after another and after giving her the list yesterday im sooooooo frusterated with this. I cant help but feel less important and passed over now that we have a baby on the way and his sister getting married is way more important than our house getting baby ready. his mom even told me once that it was bad timing on our part because of the wedding, which isnt till august. how am i suppost to feel hearing that?!i mean, how do i not feel passed over and that us and our baby is not imporant. ive done what i could and complained and gave her the list, but shes the landlord, and has told me out right she cant afford much right now due to the wedding. what do i do? i personally dont feel like this house is babysafe, let alone healthy. its becoming more of a pain in the arse than a blessing to be honost being in this house. renting an apartment would be nice, but we just cant swing that with the economy and me not working and only having one income. im just stressed...if i could, id do all the stuff myself, but being pregnant i cant. i dont know what to do. im fed up i cant stop crying.