Hi moms (and dads?),
I am writing on behalf of the parents of one of my students actually. He is a ninth grader who constantly underperforms. In teacher-speak, we call it laziness. But, he's a good kid really, and really, in educator-speak, we would call it passive-resistance. That is, he is choosing to not work to capacity (do homework, study, make up missed work, go for extra help, etc.), because it's easier. The parents have already taken away so many privileges, but are at their wits' end.
Any ideas that I can pass along or links to articles on passive resistance? Thanks for any help. I know as a professional high school teacher, we're supposed to have all the answers, but that just isn't the case. I think passive-resisters are some of the hardest nuts to crack...and to any parents of one, my heart goes out to you. Not sure what I would do if either of my daughters developed into one. What a horror!
Thanks in advance for any ideas/articles/links that I could pass along.
I am writing on behalf of the parents of one of my students actually. He is a ninth grader who constantly underperforms. In teacher-speak, we call it laziness. But, he's a good kid really, and really, in educator-speak, we would call it passive-resistance. That is, he is choosing to not work to capacity (do homework, study, make up missed work, go for extra help, etc.), because it's easier. The parents have already taken away so many privileges, but are at their wits' end.
Any ideas that I can pass along or links to articles on passive resistance? Thanks for any help. I know as a professional high school teacher, we're supposed to have all the answers, but that just isn't the case. I think passive-resisters are some of the hardest nuts to crack...and to any parents of one, my heart goes out to you. Not sure what I would do if either of my daughters developed into one. What a horror!
Thanks in advance for any ideas/articles/links that I could pass along.