Are there any ladies that will be paying for a private ultrasound to find out the gender early? My husband and I have decided to not buy anything untill we know the gender. My doc doesnt do ultrasounds often, usually only one a pregnancy. He told me at my last appointment he wont do the "big" one until 24 weeks! We are going to pay to have one done for about $100USD which isnt bad. They say that they can tell as early as 14 weeks but we will be waiting until about 16.