broodybeauty
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Maybe im over-reacting but i feel i really need to get this off my chest,sorry in advance.
Since finding out me and my partner were expecting we have been over the moon,my mum is thrilled and is continously buying little items such as wipes,bibs,bath thermometer,baby scissors she has also bought our moses basket and cot and matress.She has been a star always calling and txting after my scans and popping in to see us with a bag full of goodies that shes found while food shopping.
We have involved my partners mum as much as mine yet we have had no effort or enthusiasm at all.She has offered to buy our bedding set and without being cheeky it is very cheap looking and she has ordered it online so hasnt gone out of her way to go get it.
I was diagnosed with depression a couple of weeks ago which she is aware of and has not once called to see how i am.We call into her house probably about once a week and try to involve her but she doesnt even ask about baby just talks about herself.And to top it off since moving to our new home 8 months ago she has been here once!It really upsets me that she is showing no support and hasnt purchased anything for her grandchild, my partner called her the other day to see how she was,and she asked has sarah had her 12 week scan yet,baring in mind im now 16 weeks!!My partner completely agrees with me but just doesnt have the heart to say anything to her and it is really getting me down.
Am i being a hormonal cow or do i have a point?Anyone else experiencing this from MIL?Sorry its so long and the punctuation is horrendous,couldnt help but rant!xx
Since finding out me and my partner were expecting we have been over the moon,my mum is thrilled and is continously buying little items such as wipes,bibs,bath thermometer,baby scissors she has also bought our moses basket and cot and matress.She has been a star always calling and txting after my scans and popping in to see us with a bag full of goodies that shes found while food shopping.
We have involved my partners mum as much as mine yet we have had no effort or enthusiasm at all.She has offered to buy our bedding set and without being cheeky it is very cheap looking and she has ordered it online so hasnt gone out of her way to go get it.
I was diagnosed with depression a couple of weeks ago which she is aware of and has not once called to see how i am.We call into her house probably about once a week and try to involve her but she doesnt even ask about baby just talks about herself.And to top it off since moving to our new home 8 months ago she has been here once!It really upsets me that she is showing no support and hasnt purchased anything for her grandchild, my partner called her the other day to see how she was,and she asked has sarah had her 12 week scan yet,baring in mind im now 16 weeks!!My partner completely agrees with me but just doesnt have the heart to say anything to her and it is really getting me down.
Am i being a hormonal cow or do i have a point?Anyone else experiencing this from MIL?Sorry its so long and the punctuation is horrendous,couldnt help but rant!xx