I really appreciate hearing anyone's response because I feel like this is another thing people don't really talk about or have trouble talking about. I have been with DH for 7 years - and have always felt proud of how active our sex life was. After our miscarriage though he has had on and off issues performing. I know he feels terrible about it and so do I. The first few times it happed it- I was terrible and burst out crying.....but now i just try and tell him its okay and be supportive while totally freaking out inside my head (OMG it's CD14). He states its just when he thinks about how sad and terrible it all was it consumes him. I don't discuss my ovulation days etc with him since we just are EOD or EDD. We took 2 months off kind of - and were doing wonderfully this month - and than it happened once, twice, thrice. Ahhhh! We were nervous because he had testicular cancer a few years ago and thought it may be related, but he has an exceptional bill of health. The odd thing thats throwing me is he'll go weeks at a time - no problem. Every freaking day....and than it happens.... Any advice??