No, my husband had a vasectomy when our son was 5 weeks old. He told me he didn't care what I had to say or how I felt, he wanted it done, was getting it done, and got it done. He completely disregarded me and betrayed me, but despite that, I still tried to make our marriage work. In July, we filled out and signed divorce papers, but neither of us handed them in. Believing the marriage was over, I began looking for alternative living arrangements for myself and my children, and decided to proceed with artificial insemination with donor sperm. I did not want another relationship and have rapidly progressing endometriosis.
Stupid me, I made the mistake of continuing to sleep with him, despite my arrangements, and the last time I did so was the night I ovulated. I artificially inseminated myself the morning after I ovulated. The procedure I used also only has a 10% success rate, so imagine my surprise when he comes home and tells me he had a repeat sperm analysis done and it came back with a low count of 20 000. Now, it's still unlikely that the baby is his, but because of this new information, I had the momentary lapse of judgement that I didn't want this baby to come between us and wanted to continue to make the marriage work. It took a little while but I wanted and still do want this baby. The marriage won't work because he won't make the effort with me. In the end, my children are my family and the loves of my life and on October 1, I'll be delving into the wonderful world of single parenthood to 3 kids under the age of 4.
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