Frecks
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My oh has had quite a serious weed addiction since about 13, and he always said he would give up if i became pregnant. I'm so proud of him, he's cut down so so much since iv been pregnant, his usage has gone down from £20 a day to not even a fiver a day. I know this is still bad and I have made it clear that he will not be holding the baby if he has been smoking. I have faith in him that he will be able to stop in the next 17 odd weeks, I can't show doubt in him because it will dampen the progress he's made so far.
I just can't help being concerned still that he won't manage it. He smokes more on his days off, and iv said to him that they are the most important days not to smoke it because he will be with the baby. I think he's in denial a bit, he thinks that once our lo's here it will be easy to stop straight away. I used to smoke it occasionally with him but never anything substantial, I would never do it now, my lo has changed my life and I just wish that my oh felt this way too. I know it is unacceptable for him to smoke it anyway, but i also understand it is an addiction and he's trying his hardest to quit so please don't put comments about how bad it is that he smokes, I know it is. I just needed to get it out really xx
I just can't help being concerned still that he won't manage it. He smokes more on his days off, and iv said to him that they are the most important days not to smoke it because he will be with the baby. I think he's in denial a bit, he thinks that once our lo's here it will be easy to stop straight away. I used to smoke it occasionally with him but never anything substantial, I would never do it now, my lo has changed my life and I just wish that my oh felt this way too. I know it is unacceptable for him to smoke it anyway, but i also understand it is an addiction and he's trying his hardest to quit so please don't put comments about how bad it is that he smokes, I know it is. I just needed to get it out really xx