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Ros40

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Hi

Just lately I have been imagining all sorts....crazy stuff

Like boyfriend is having an affair....

I feel so rubbish about my looks at the moment , I feel such a mess

If he is home late I start thinking where is he? why hasn't he rung...and questioning things in my mind

What is wrong with me?
 
Awww Hun

I agree is hormones your not the only one thu

My OH jokes about women being pretty and when he gets a text he says it's off his girl friend don't look and before pregnancy I know laugh and pinch him as knew it was a joke but since pregnancy I feel he isn't joking sometimes (I know he is) but I can't help it

Hormones will be the only thing I won't miss when baby is here lol

Your not alone xx
 
aw thank you, feel like crying...just feel so insecure
 
im right there with u... i cry all the time thinking he doesnt loveme n the baby.:( i know its stpid but i cant help it. i feel like every pretty women tht goes by he is looking ..
I do wish he would show it more but with this pregnancy i need so much from him and it seems like im not getting it n i think the worse.. im trying to do better but it is hard ...i feel fat unattractive , i dont even feel like fixing myself up like i use to like makup n stuff .. i only put makeup on when we go out somewhere together ... I HATE FEELING LIKE THIS ....but its worth it in the end :)
 
im having loads of this at the min ... for some reason i keep thinking my closest elderly relatives are going to die (harsh i know!) and keep dreaming about BF with other woman, even though i know its something he wouldnt do! I also get the jokes....and dont find them funny!!

I think its to do with gaining weight and not feeling very sexy
 
I feel like everyone I see makes a comment about how big I'm getting, or how tired I look, and it's really been getting to me. I've told this to my husband a few times, and now whenever someone makes a comment in front of him he bites their head off! I feel like he knows I feel insecure and is super over compensating, but honestly at this point I'm going to let him.
 
I feel this way sometimes too and it's hard because until tonight my hubby worked with a few really pretty girls. They are going home to eastern Europe next week though so that's at least one thing less for me to get annoyed at. He is a great guy and would never cheat but I still have totally unreasonable feelings and dreams sometimes. He laughs when I get miffed for a bit after one of those dreams. Good luck to you all!
 

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