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[addie25]

Hi everyone,

I need some advice. My husband takes a long time to "finish" to begin with and has never finished inside of me since we weren't trying till now. We tried for the first time yesterday and after an hr and a half he cud not finish in me so he finished with his hand (sorry tmi) and then i scooped some and put it inside then sat on (you know) to try and get some more in me. Can you get preg this way??? How can I help him be able to finish inside of me. He wants a baby but said he is not used to finishing inside of me so that can be the cause. He said he will get used to it and it wont be an issue but I am worried. What should we do???

Thanks

 

[kaye]

I would say keep trying for him to finish inside you. Maybe get him to a point where he is near completion and then put back inside you.

 

[Janesworld]

I wonder if you had him "finish" in a cup, then use a syringe (or something of that nature)? I want to say there was a thread about that on here...

 

[addie25]

Thanks for the reply

We did get him to the point that he was about to finish then it was taking long when I got back on that is why we did it the way we did but I don't think Ill get preg like that I want him to finish in me without issue. He said its just because it was not part of our normal routine and he has to get used to it. I just hope he gets over the change and can just do it.

 

[glowingjo]

I think Kaye's suggestion is a good one to try. Give him some 'help' and jump on for the final showdown. And if that doesn't work have a cup standing by just in case and go with jane's suggestion

Good luck

 

[MrsEvans]

Use soft cups
he comes in the softcup and you put the softcup inside you. softcup goes around the cervix so all the sperm is close to exactly where they need to be.

You can purchase them and read more on what they do below.

But i'd say in the short term this is the best addition you can use to help you get pregnant

https://www.early-pregnancy-tests.com/softcup.html

 

[addie25]

Thank you for all the suggestions!!!!!!!