Possibilty his little swimmers arent making it?

[mixedbeautyx]

I have a question and was wondering if anyone notices the same things. Sometimes after bd his swimmers come gushing out and then other times such as last night I could feel it right down there still very wet (tmi) like they didnt go anywhere. And then other times, I stand up and feel them come right out. I usually try to lay for a good 10 mintues cause I know that helps.

And also last night we BD around 9pm, I went to sleep had to take a pee at like 4am I noticed his swimmers were coming out of me while I was in the bathroom. I would think by 7 hours they would of been somewhere in the uterus hanging out by then.

I am just hoping they are making it up there, because it just seems they come out. Is that normal? Does this happen to anyone else?

Please any advice would be great!

 

[mmlovepink]

hi hun, this always happens to me. theres one been a handful of time when no sperm has leaked out. i think it's pretty common for sperm to leak after sex, most women experience this, especially me. it happened to me just last night. i didnt go to the toilet at all just in case... but ive heard that the sperm that gushes out are no good anyway, like they're not strong swimmers. so if you leave your hips elevated for 10-20 mins, the good swimmers will have reached their destination already. im sure when you went for your pee at 4am, it was the bad sperm that leaked out! dont worry too much. i've heard softcups help solve this issue, but i've never actually tried it. maybe it's worth looking into it

good luck ttc x

 

[smokey]

Leakage is completly normal even if it is pretty gross most of what comes back out isnt actualy sperm its just the fluids that help cary then along so realy only about 2% of all that fluid in ejaculation actualy needs to go or gets anywhere, the rest is just to give us gross wet patches

Try laying on your back with a load of pillows wedged under your bum with legs up in the air or against a wall, try cycling them as if you where riding a bike upside down (no one ever said TTC looked dignafied) stay like that for at least half an hour.

Also iv heard things like mooncups can help keep it all in place for longer

 

[lisap2008]

The sperm separates from the semen once inside you, and swims up the EWCM to reach the egg , the fast swimmers make it through the cervix within 30 minutes. its normal for some leakage to happen.

 

[mixedbeautyx]

Okay great thanks everyone. I guess its normal and that answers my concerns!!